pleasing others more than pleasing yourself

I think that most and every one of us have experienced this before of what I am about to say. This topic relates to everyone because I know that I am not the only one who has experienced this as well. I know that this topic relates to me so much because I have spent much of my time pleasing others rather than spending time caring for myself. When one's feelings are touched by another, supposedly by the opposite gender, those feelings tend to become greater especially when someone is hearing your feelings and troubles out. When you tell someone of the opposite gender your feelings and troubles, then that troubled person then feels a greater respect to the one who is listening and the one who is listening has more sympathy towards the troubled person. This is how a human's heart works. Every heart contains a certain amount of feelings towards others which is limited until that heart can not take anymore and becomes spiteful towards the world they live amongst. In order for these lives to not lead toward a wrong path, we relieve our “stress” by sharing our troubles and relating them to others who have experienced it.

Not only does this concern to people of the opposite genders relations but as well as to the same gender. This is because I believe that men get along better with men when it comes to understanding each others reasons of depression and their sorrow towards girls. This is the same as saying how girls love shopping while boys love sports and are adrenaline junkies. Throughout experience, I agree to this because I have been through both in which I had to agree upon having a more comfortable feeling while talking towards other guys. You would not feel as awkward as you are talking to a girl about what guys talk about. As to girls talking about how hot guys are and who is the gossip of the day and such. Gossips in my opinion I ought to be around for both sexes however, it seems that girls tend to make those gossips more into a rumor and such.

The only way to escape the turmoil of keeping these pain is to let others know and share those pains with them in which I must say that I have used this quote as well, “ You do not have to keep everything to yourself, the more you keep it to yourself, the more it will affect you with pain. I am here to relieve your pain by taking some of those burden off of your shoulder and putting it on mine and I am sure that most friends are willing to do the same as well. Friends are there to hear you out and help you through those hard times. Never think that you are alone in this world.”